Many women in their 20s and 30s are drawn to older men for casual relationships. Why? Here are a few reasons:

• Confidence: Older men are often more self-assured and direct, traits that many women find sexy.
• Emotional Maturity: They’re usually better communicators and less likely to play games.
• Sexual Experience: Knowing what works (and what doesn’t) makes for better encounters.
• Discretion: Older partners are more likely to keep things respectful and private.

Being older doesn’t mean being out of the game—in fact, it often puts you ahead of it.